advice
10/26/2009
girl on my level
i am extremely confused, i am a very attractive male who was a little sheltered growing up, and went to a private school. i find it so hard to talk to women, women come up to me all the time and women who i am not attracted to seem to come after me all the time but all of the attractive women go after guys who are so ugly, why?i mean i am nice and great looking and treat others well, what do i have to do to get a girl who is on my level? why do girls go after ugly guys when they can have me?
A couple things could possibly be the cause. First, it could be that girls see your shyness as conceit or being stuck up. Another cause could be that your assuming that girls want a guy that is just as good looking as they are. This isn't always the case. Many times women her are exstremely beautiful don't want the competition they want a man to worship them.
One thing you also must rememeber that at different stages in our life we want different things from men. In our teens we want a man who is handsome. In our mid twenties we are looking for a good mate. A man who is a good provider and would be good as a father. In your late thirties we are looking for a man who will be a good companion.
Maybe those who you consider ugly really are your perfect match if you would just try. Good Luck.
Dr. Mama Love
A couple things could possibly be the cause. First, it could be that girls see your shyness as conceit or being stuck up. Another cause could be that your assuming that girls want a guy that is just as good looking as they are. This isn't always the case. Many times women her are exstremely beautiful don't want the competition they want a man to worship them.
One thing you also must rememeber that at different stages in our life we want different things from men. In our teens we want a man who is handsome. In our mid twenties we are looking for a good mate. A man who is a good provider and would be good as a father. In your late thirties we are looking for a man who will be a good companion.
Maybe those who you consider ugly really are your perfect match if you would just try. Good Luck.
Dr. Mama Love
