advice
10/31/2009
no attractive
women
women
I think I'm good with talking to girls. i've been told I have a pretty vibrant personality. I use to meet people constantly in school or when i worked for the bank as a teller. I recently moved to a quiet state and my work is solitary. I'm 22 I've been in long term relationships(3 and a half years the longest) everyonce in a while i see somebody that I'd like to talk to in the mall or something but although I think I'd be great once I'm talking to them, I don't know how to break the ice. How to begin the conversation. I don't go to the bars because I don't have any friends yet and I've never been to a bar by myself. I've thought of going but I may feel awkward and portray that. If you can give me some advice on like starting a conversation and just breaking the ice that would be fantastic, I'm really struggling here.
Thanks
Ok to break the ice start by getting the girl to either help you something such as how do you pick the best mellons, to what do you suggest I eat here? Get the girl to talk about themselves. Have you worked here long? Do you like working here? Do you come here often? I am new here where does everyone here go on the weekends or for a drink....
Next I want to suggest to you to join a group. Church would be my first suggestion there is no better group of people who like to get their people with others of like mind plus they know the in's and out's of everyone. They also welcome everyone and will help with the friendship factor. If you don't feel comfortable there join a group bowling, tennis. Start working out at the gym where you are in the public doing something. It's hard being alone in a new town. Even vibrant people get in slumps when they are thrown in somewhere they don't know anyone.
Good Luck and Let me know how it goes!
Dr. Mama Love
Thanks
Ok to break the ice start by getting the girl to either help you something such as how do you pick the best mellons, to what do you suggest I eat here? Get the girl to talk about themselves. Have you worked here long? Do you like working here? Do you come here often? I am new here where does everyone here go on the weekends or for a drink....
Next I want to suggest to you to join a group. Church would be my first suggestion there is no better group of people who like to get their people with others of like mind plus they know the in's and out's of everyone. They also welcome everyone and will help with the friendship factor. If you don't feel comfortable there join a group bowling, tennis. Start working out at the gym where you are in the public doing something. It's hard being alone in a new town. Even vibrant people get in slumps when they are thrown in somewhere they don't know anyone.
Good Luck and Let me know how it goes!
Dr. Mama Love
