advice
11/20/2009
No confidence
I met a guy about two months ago, at first he was soo sweet and nice, almost like I was too good for him, one day he invited me over his place he had warned me that he had roomates, to make a long story short when we got to the place I realized that I had briefly dated a best friend to one of his roomates, I told him right away and he acted fine, now like a week later he dissapared for a whole week after calling him several times he answered and told me he had a death in his family and was out of town, we got back on track and have been together ever since but he is not as close to me like he was , he has changed since I told him about his friend and well one night during sex he asked me if I was being real with him and that if I would leave him if that guy came back around, now I really like this guy and want him in my life my ? Is how can I get him to be the way he was at first and do you think that it work between us. Thanks in advance for ur honest opinion.
I think that he is jealous that you were with this other man. Even if he knows he shouldn't be. I don't think he has very much confidence in himself if he thinks you are going to leave him for another man. I think you need to keep telling him and showing him that it is only him that you want and that noone else compares to him. Over time he will start believing especially since time will prove it to him. We often think it is the women who are not confident in themselves but many times it is the man. Good Luck and keep me posted.
Dr. Mama Love
I think that he is jealous that you were with this other man. Even if he knows he shouldn't be. I don't think he has very much confidence in himself if he thinks you are going to leave him for another man. I think you need to keep telling him and showing him that it is only him that you want and that noone else compares to him. Over time he will start believing especially since time will prove it to him. We often think it is the women who are not confident in themselves but many times it is the man. Good Luck and keep me posted.
Dr. Mama Love
