advice
11/22/2009
Love or lust
i am very worried about my first sexual encounter. my greatest fear is to confuse "love" or if he is the "right" one, or... if its just lust and my hormones taking over. help, please, your advice will be greatly appreciated
This is a very common worry. I will tell you that your first sexual encounter should be with someone you love. The best way to tell if it's love or not is to wait till you are married. Love is a decession that you make that you will love this person till the day you die. Lust is just a feeling. It's the giddy feeling you get when he touches you. You can have lust and love at the same time but lust can come and go in a relationship where love last a life time. If you are questioning this about a particular person it probably isn't the right time yet.
Dr. mama Love
This is a very common worry. I will tell you that your first sexual encounter should be with someone you love. The best way to tell if it's love or not is to wait till you are married. Love is a decession that you make that you will love this person till the day you die. Lust is just a feeling. It's the giddy feeling you get when he touches you. You can have lust and love at the same time but lust can come and go in a relationship where love last a life time. If you are questioning this about a particular person it probably isn't the right time yet.
Dr. mama Love
