advice
03/01/2010
pregnant living
with his parents
with his parents
i seen your ad on craigslist and i have a question, i have been with my bf for 11 months and i am 7 months pregnant and due in may, we live with his mother and his 16 year old brother and i hate it and i have told him several times he loves his brother as he was his own son and i cant take living like this anymore what should i do, i want this to work and i will do anything for this to work
I think when you have a child coming of your own it is time to move out of your parents home. While he is living at home he is still in a parent child relationship (him being the child) I think it is wonderful that he loves his brother but it is time to let his mother be the mother of her child while he starts being a parent of his child to be. Even if it is fincially difficult I think he needs to break away from his mother and brother. If you want this relationship to work he needs to get out of that house. There is help out there if you need it. Keep me posted.
Dr. Mama Love
I think when you have a child coming of your own it is time to move out of your parents home. While he is living at home he is still in a parent child relationship (him being the child) I think it is wonderful that he loves his brother but it is time to let his mother be the mother of her child while he starts being a parent of his child to be. Even if it is fincially difficult I think he needs to break away from his mother and brother. If you want this relationship to work he needs to get out of that house. There is help out there if you need it. Keep me posted.
Dr. Mama Love
