05/21/2010

friends with
benefits

I just recently got in contact with one of my friends friends from High School and I like him. But he says he could never see us in a relationship so lets just stay friends. But he is in a relationship but he's told me he only sees it as puppy dog love and infatuation but not true love. But he has just come up to me while in this relationship and asked me to be friends with benafits with him. Why do i feel like theres something wrong with this? But is there more to this or am i reading to far ahead? But why do i get this flutter that tells me theres more to this picture than im seeing?

Ok girlfriend, I say stay out of his bed if you ever want something more out of the relationship then "Just friends with benefits"  I realize you like him but I think if you hold out then I think you will get more. You've heard the old saying, "Why buy the cow if you get the milk for free?"  Well I'm not saying marriage I am saying some sort of commitment.  True Love is a decision that you make the infactuation just comes and goes.  I think your ok with being slightly more then friends if he is not with someone else basically don't climb in bed with him until he wants a more eclusive relationship.  I think with the way you feel about him if you climb in bed with and he doesn't ever respond to you with more feeling you will be hurt.  Let me know how it goes

Dr. Mama Love