advice
06/12/2010
Did I make
a mistake
a mistake
dear mama love,
i dont know whats the better will i do now!! please help me.. im 17 years old, i have a boyfriend and we have a 1year and 9 months. when we are 1 yr. and 4 months he ask me to make love to him den i agree. just to prove that i realy love and trust him.. before we make love her attitude was a good, sweet, and when me have a argument he did not fight with me insted he is still make me calm, i miss the old him so much.. after 2 weeks when we make love he started to change when we have a arguments he also fight me and if i am anger with him his not pleasing me to make me smile and make me calm, hes change when we are fighting.. hes sweetness, caring and more loving i miss it.. march 12 2010 when we broke up. then he came back to me march 19.. then now we still together but our relationship is not like before when we are 1yr and 4 months. now myproblem is he have no timeto spend.. i know he have a work and i understand that but it hurts to me when he made a promise that he will be absent on the day of our monthsari. but he change it he said that after hes work he will go here in my home and its to late at night already when he came and hes tired how we can celecrate our month if hes tired and want to sleep.. it hurts to me because he dont pay me attention like before.. i understand him because i love him.. but he dont understand what i want to him. mama love i want hes attention i want to feel that he love's me i want to feel hes care to me.. i realy love him and i dont want to let go of him.. what should i do now.. i realy dont know what should i do.. did i made a mistake? i love him so much.. i hope i recieve a good advice from you..i dont feel hes care to me.
thank you so much for reading this letter of mine
god bles mama love.... take care always...
I think that he figures he has you and he no longer has to work at this relationship. He is too comfortable. He is acting like you are an old married couple. He no longer feels he has to worry about wether or not he makes you happy because you are already completely and totally his and he doesn't have to worry about that or how you feel because he figures he won't lose you. He enjoyed the chase, so now you have to do the unexpected, you need to make him work at this relationship. Let him know that you are not here to do what ever he wants and if he is not interested in you, you have others who are or really you don't need anyone at all. You've got bring back the mystery. Keep him on his toes even if it means you have to break up for a little while. Keep me posted.
Dr. Mama Love
i dont know whats the better will i do now!! please help me.. im 17 years old, i have a boyfriend and we have a 1year and 9 months. when we are 1 yr. and 4 months he ask me to make love to him den i agree. just to prove that i realy love and trust him.. before we make love her attitude was a good, sweet, and when me have a argument he did not fight with me insted he is still make me calm, i miss the old him so much.. after 2 weeks when we make love he started to change when we have a arguments he also fight me and if i am anger with him his not pleasing me to make me smile and make me calm, hes change when we are fighting.. hes sweetness, caring and more loving i miss it.. march 12 2010 when we broke up. then he came back to me march 19.. then now we still together but our relationship is not like before when we are 1yr and 4 months. now myproblem is he have no timeto spend.. i know he have a work and i understand that but it hurts to me when he made a promise that he will be absent on the day of our monthsari. but he change it he said that after hes work he will go here in my home and its to late at night already when he came and hes tired how we can celecrate our month if hes tired and want to sleep.. it hurts to me because he dont pay me attention like before.. i understand him because i love him.. but he dont understand what i want to him. mama love i want hes attention i want to feel that he love's me i want to feel hes care to me.. i realy love him and i dont want to let go of him.. what should i do now.. i realy dont know what should i do.. did i made a mistake? i love him so much.. i hope i recieve a good advice from you..i dont feel hes care to me.
thank you so much for reading this letter of mine
god bles mama love.... take care always...
I think that he figures he has you and he no longer has to work at this relationship. He is too comfortable. He is acting like you are an old married couple. He no longer feels he has to worry about wether or not he makes you happy because you are already completely and totally his and he doesn't have to worry about that or how you feel because he figures he won't lose you. He enjoyed the chase, so now you have to do the unexpected, you need to make him work at this relationship. Let him know that you are not here to do what ever he wants and if he is not interested in you, you have others who are or really you don't need anyone at all. You've got bring back the mystery. Keep him on his toes even if it means you have to break up for a little while. Keep me posted.
Dr. Mama Love
