advice
07/02/2010
I proposed but
no answer
no answer
I have a question since this the first tile I have fallen in love or I should say risen in love
I know this girl since 6 months back and then we had very little conversation and then for the past 2 months we had not so long but good communication.
2 weeks back it suddenly happened in me that I started feeling something wrong, I mean I was unable to concentrate on anything
Her events generated in my mind after every second. After struggling for a week or so I concluded it was love and I after few days told her the same (proposed)
I am a kind of a person who do not want other side to love me just because I love her(force her in love)
I told her my feelings just to make heart lighter, and this is what I told her after proposing
She didnt say anything at that time. I also thought that by telling her my feelings I will be able to concentrate on my work and will slowly forget her as I knew that she has no such type of feeling for me
After proposing her uptill know this the 10 th day we have had no chat,we have not met.
she often comes on messenger but she do not ping and I also do not ping either.
Problem statement : I am not able to forget her, the harder I try to forget her the more she comes in my way. I even dont know that she loves me or not. I want that she should come up and say her feelings whether she loves me or not. I am ready for any answer but wants an answer. Question here is, after so many days gone by after proposing her will she come up with a reply?, Is there anything in her for me? Even if there is a'no' will she tell me that ? How much time will I wait for an answer?, Shall I assume its a 'no' ? I have decided that I will not be calling her and asking her, her reply. If she is in love with me she will herself answer it.
I know these questions sounds stupid but they are like crowding my mind everyday.
Can you just provide me with some tips on how to forget her. I really want to concentrate on my future.
I think you need to wait for her to respond to you. You have already proposed and now its time to let her have her space and think about it. It's her move now. I believe that at this point in time I would assume ithat her answer is a no. I am so sorry about that. I think the best way to move on is to start dating again and going out with your friends. Every day the goes by will get easier when you actively work at forgetting her. Remember you deserve someone who will treat you like you gold.
Keep me posted
Dr. Mama Love
I know this girl since 6 months back and then we had very little conversation and then for the past 2 months we had not so long but good communication.
2 weeks back it suddenly happened in me that I started feeling something wrong, I mean I was unable to concentrate on anything
Her events generated in my mind after every second. After struggling for a week or so I concluded it was love and I after few days told her the same (proposed)
I am a kind of a person who do not want other side to love me just because I love her(force her in love)
I told her my feelings just to make heart lighter, and this is what I told her after proposing
She didnt say anything at that time. I also thought that by telling her my feelings I will be able to concentrate on my work and will slowly forget her as I knew that she has no such type of feeling for me
After proposing her uptill know this the 10 th day we have had no chat,we have not met.
she often comes on messenger but she do not ping and I also do not ping either.
Problem statement : I am not able to forget her, the harder I try to forget her the more she comes in my way. I even dont know that she loves me or not. I want that she should come up and say her feelings whether she loves me or not. I am ready for any answer but wants an answer. Question here is, after so many days gone by after proposing her will she come up with a reply?, Is there anything in her for me? Even if there is a'no' will she tell me that ? How much time will I wait for an answer?, Shall I assume its a 'no' ? I have decided that I will not be calling her and asking her, her reply. If she is in love with me she will herself answer it.
I know these questions sounds stupid but they are like crowding my mind everyday.
Can you just provide me with some tips on how to forget her. I really want to concentrate on my future.
I think you need to wait for her to respond to you. You have already proposed and now its time to let her have her space and think about it. It's her move now. I believe that at this point in time I would assume ithat her answer is a no. I am so sorry about that. I think the best way to move on is to start dating again and going out with your friends. Every day the goes by will get easier when you actively work at forgetting her. Remember you deserve someone who will treat you like you gold.
Keep me posted
Dr. Mama Love
