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What makes you think about turning your back on your love and your relationships? Why do want to take a chance on a new love relationship? What makes this happen? Marriage infidelity and any other relationship affairs are hard. Even if they don't bcome physical but they do something with someone else it can be an emotional affair.  Somethings happening or you wouldn't be looking for love help and advice. There’s just something about that person that makes your heart flutter. Maybe that person is married or lives far way maybe even a different state or country or could it be your culture or religion is such that it is impossible for you ever to be together. How do you get over that? How do you stop thinking about this new relationship you could have. How can you save your relationship? or save your marriage  Should you try to? I think the key here is don’t start something you know you can’t finish and if you have started it maybe its time to stop because unless they live in a different country your not safe and someone can get hurt.


I think its natural to feel that connection with someone else because after all aren’t we only human? but what kind of connection? There's all different kinds of love and relationships.  I think God has created more then one person that we are capable of having a fulfilling relationship with. I guess the problem comes when we act upon these feelings when there is no chance that it can go anywhere. What exactly does it mean to act upon it? Does that mean just don’t become physical and you’ll be ok? If you don't "make love"? What if you are dreaming about that person is that wrong too? Wouldn’t that be wrong? What if your mate is just looking at other women? Don’t all men look after all they are men? This is something that I have heard from many people about their mate. If they are looking doesn’t that mean they are thinking about other things? I really don’t have the answer for that. I do know I wouldn’t like it to occur while I was there!


What about flirting with another person when you are in a committed relationship isn’t that wrong? I always went by the theory if you can do it in the church around all sorts of people including your mate or theirs then its probably ok. It’s when you make the other person uncomfortable that makes it not right. If you are making someone else uncomfortable it needs to stop. What if you are just talking to someone else? Is that ok. If you are just talking I would have to say its ok after all doesn’t everyone have friends of the opposite sex.

I think affairs start when you start dabbling in things that aren’t appropriate and I think we tend to know that what we are doing could ruin our relationship and hurt the one's we love.Is it worth losing that person you love? If you are questioning your self-maybe it’s time to stop. It may save your relationship and your love.


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