Single women, how to ask on date
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Need some advice on asking a girl out on a date? Are you interested in starting a relationship. It can be a daunting task. You think she is really nice and hot too you sure would love to have a relationship with her. There is definitely an attraction on your part. The problem is your shy and you have been rejected before. It make you a little nervous. No one likes to be rejected but everyone has a one time or another. How should you go about asking her out on that date? What is the best way to get the answer you want, which of course is yes! We need a plan and we need it fast.
First you need to watch this girl. See what she likes, where she might want to go. What she likes to eat. Who are the people she likes to hang around. This will help us figure out if she is someone you would like a relationship with. Is this someone who you would like to date? If you don't care to fall in love or start a relationship then you can skip this step.
The next thing you need to when asking this girl out on a date is to get her alone. Isolate her from her friends so that they can not influence her answer. If she is around a group of friends, ask her if you can speak to her alone. Most likely she will say yes. Most people like to feel that they are polite. If they were to say no I am not sure this is the type of person you really want to be asking out. Do not ask her out over the phone it is too easy to say no.
Now hold your head high, shoulders back and approach with confidence even if you have none. Look directly into her eyes and giver her compliment. Make it something simple for example, “you look nice today” or “that shirt matches your beautiful eyes.” Keep it simple. (just a hint keep the compliments coming even after your date if you want a relationship and her love)
She is alone now and this has made her feel special. It is now time to ask her out on a date. My suggestion is to ask her a general invitation, “would you like to go out sometime?” This leaves the time open and gives less chance for rejection. If she says, “yes” now you can ask for a specific time or date. The pressure is off here because you know she wants to go out with you. If she says, “no” it’s time to move on at least until tomorrow.
After a little while has passed ask her out as friends especially if she used the line, “I just want to be friends.” This will get your foot in the door. Ask her out as friends for a pizza or something. Don't call it a date call this relationship a friendship. Many times the best advice you get for your relationships start out as friends. Good Luck
