Love adice Is Your Partner cheating on You?
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How can you tell if the person you are committed to and are in love with is cheating? It hurts to find out someone you love is cheating on you. There are signs that can help you know if they are. Usually it is the combination of the signs that leads us to believe that someone is cheating. How could this person do this to you. You thought you were in love. It rips your heart out. Love sure can hurt. You know that song Love, Love why did you let me down, down can't get much lower..... you know it. So, if your out there and you are even thinking about cheating. Stop! it's not worth it. Don't hurt the ones you love.
1. Does the phone ring and when you answer it no one is on the other end? Does this only happen to you and not your significant other? Isn't it strange that this only happens to you and not to him. Don't bother asking him if it's been happening to him because of course it has. Just watch don't ask.
2. Does your mate whisper on the phone when you enter the room and hang up quickly after that? Now, if its almost your birthday you may have a prayer here but if it's not watch for other signs.
3. Are they all of a sudden working late hours or more often? Is it hard to get a hold of them when they are working late? Ask around are others working over time? Is the paycheck bigger? It won't show if its salary.
4. Are they not as intimate as they were? Or maybe more but they do it quickly like to get it over with? They really could just be tired, working more hours. It's several things put together that makes you pause and wonder.
5. Are you arguing more over stupid stuff? This helps them justify what they are doing. If you always have then I am sure it is nothing but if it just started out of no where question it.
6.Are they coming home with someone elses smell on them or lipstick around the collar? This is really bad especially if they say it's their mother and his mother doesn't wear lipstick.
7. Are you finding phone numbers on the phone bill you have no idea who it's from? call it find out who it is.
8. Are they on the computer all hours of the day and try to hide who they are chatting with? When computers start consuming your life and you start having withdrawls even if they aren't cheating they need some help distancing themselves from it.
9. Are they unwilling to give you their password to the email accounts? This is a problem with trust. Appearently they don't trust you or they are hiding something.
10. In the middle of the night do you wake up to find them on the computer or talking on the phone? Definitely not good! Unless they are letting you see exactly what they are doing or let you talk on the phone too. Be careful with the computer though some of us have insomnia.
11. Do you find items that you know are not yours lying around the house or car? This is not a good sign and the more you find the worse it is and if it is underwear well you might as well put their stuff on the curb.
Remember just one of these might be nothing but a couple you might want to take a closer look. Always remember that it's the combination of signs and not just one. It could also be that there are actual legitimate reasons for these things.
