Wedding planner and check list
Your wedding day is a very special day. It’s the day you have looked forward to all your life. From the time we are little we dream of this day. Each one of us has a little different view of how it will be. We play house. Watch little kids play this game and you will see what they see as their future role.
Although these roles can change over time many of the things they pretend is what they see will happen. It use to be we would see the kids pretending the mommy stayed home and took care of the babies and the daddies went to work now we are seeing little kids putting their babies in daycare and both heading off to work. Both have a career but we still see the family unit. We see two parents happily married and children.
So, how do we make our wedding day special? I think even when problems arise on the wedding we have to remember the reason your getting married. It’s because your in love and for no other reason. So, remember this when things just happen to be going wrong that day, it’s not important because you are marrying your one true love.
To prepare for that wonderful, beautiful wedding day, you need to pamper your self. You need to make sure that you have a day before the wedding to take care of your self. Go get a manicure and a pedicure. Get your self a facial. Go out to lunch with your brides maids before the rehearsal dinner.
Here’s a check list for you of things you will need to do before the wedding
1. Get church, decide date and get initiations
2. Get minister many will make you attend counseling sessions with them.
3. Ask brides maids and ushers how many will each of you have
5. Get invitations
6. Get rings
7. Get photographer
8. Get your dress and brides maid dresses with comfortable shoes
9. Get tuxes
10. Get musicians
11. Get gifts for parents and attendants
12. Pick out music you would like to have
13.what scriptures would you like
14. Do you want a unity candle? Communion?
15. Will you write your own vows?
16. Figure out where you want to go on your honey moon. How much time will you be able to take?
17. Where will you be living after you get married?
18 Will you take your husbands name? or keep yours or hyphen?
19. Who will take the presents back to the house or apartment if they are brought to the reception hall.
20. Get someone who will pay the minister and every one for you that day.
21. If you are having a reception some where other then the church then you will need to find a reception hall or park or room.
22. Will you have music? Who?
23. Will there be dancing?
24. What will be served? Check out different caterers.
25. How many people will you invite?
26 Will you do the traditional throwing the bouquet and the garter?
27. How do you feel about bachelorette and bachelor parties?
28. Did you register at a few stores to let them know some things you might like?
Remember that it is your special day and you can do it however the two of you chose to do it. Don’t let anyone talk you into anything you don’t want to do. Make sure before you even begin that you set a budget and stick to it. You don’t want to start out your marriage in debt.
There’s a lot of planning for your Wedding day if you don’t just plan on going to the justice of the peace. Which is ok to. Just make it what you want not what every one else wants. I know that your parents have dreamed about this day for their little girls or little boys but it’s your day. They had theirs and end the end all your parents really want is for you to be happy.
