He isn't ready for Marriage
Are you ready for that ring? Are you ready to start that family? You're ready to commit and he's not? You need a plan and you need one now. He needs to stop avoiding the word "marriage" but how are you going to that?
The first thing you need to do is if you are living with him, "move out!" He might think he has it all why bother with committing to permanence. We are already living together. What's a wedding anyways it's just a paper. We don't want him thinking this way.
The second thing after you have established separate living quarters is to stop harassing him about getting married. Pretend it really doesn't matter. This will make him bring his guard down. When his guard is down that is when we start the attack. Start bringing him around other happily married couples. Remember the word happy, if you around unhappy ones this whole thing will backfire. Avoid people who are happily single and not actively preparing for marriage because those people can sway and confirm your mate's bachelorhood. I know they are your friends but for the sake of the future you must put a little distance between you at least for a little while.
If none of that works tell him it's time to see other people besides each other. Then find a really hunky man and start dating him. This will ultimately make your mate jealous and may start him thinking. If he asks you why you are doing this explain to him that you need to start looking around seeing as he doesn't want to get married.
The only thing left if none of the above works is a reevaluation of your relation. Are you going in the same directions? Is it worth giving up all your hopes and dreams of marriage? Does he love you? If you answer no to any of the above it's time to move on.
