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Do's and Don't of first date Advice
Love, Love, Love it's all about relationships and love So I am going to give you some advice that I hope will help.
1.Do call your date in advance to allow enough time to prepare for the date. People need time to arrange things. To make plans and not schedule other things during that time. Time to clear the schedule.
2.Do keep eye contact with your date. Let them know you want to be there and no where else. Wandering eyes will make them think you would rather be some where else.
3.Smile at your dateand laugh at their jokes (especially if they're funny). Show them you really are enjoying your self. Let them know you enjoy their company.
4.Do ask questions about your date and listen to what they answer. Make them feel what they say is important. Learn as much as you can about your date so that you know if you would like to go out with them again.
5.Do choose a place your comfortable with in a public spot (one must be careful where they go on a date). You don't want them to worry about their safety. You want them to be thinking about what a wonderful time they are having.
6.Be your self (this is especially important if you want the relationship to evolve beyond dating). Remember you are beautiful and deserve to have happiness.
date. Come on you know what time your suppose to be there. You don't want to start the date out badly.
8.Do keep the conversation light. If you have too serious of a conversation you might scare them off. This is the first date, take it easy. This is only the first date. It is not time to spill your guts.
9.Do look your best and wear something you are comfortable with and feel good about yourself in. You know the thing everyone always compliments you in that's what you wear just make sure it is appropriate for where ever you are going.
10. Do present yourself as a confident person. People who are confident seem more attractive to everyone. Confidence radiates from you when you have it.
11. Do greet her at her door, open the car door and open all other doors for her. Not just on the first date.
12. Compliment him or her on how they look. It's important they think you that you think they look good. Don't assume they know what you are thinking. If you don't like what they are wearing keep your mouth shut if you ever want to date that person again.
13. Make sure the place you take your date is somewhere they would want to go. If they hate Mexican Food don't take them where they only serve this.
14. At the end of the date tell the person your with that you enjoyed the date.
15. If you say you are going to call the person then call the person if not don't say you will. There is nothing worse then waiting for a phone call from someone that you never get!
Things not to do
1.Don't get drunk! Nobody likes a drunk! and Please, Don't get your date drunk!
2.Don't divulge to much information. That comes much later in the dating cycle!
3.Don't talk about your ex until you've dated awhile. Especially if you have nothing good to say. Everyone already knows that any one who has a ex probably had problems. Now is not the time to tell your date what they were.
4.Don't give unwanted physical contact. Don't try to have sex. Not yet. Even if they want to now is not the time. Get to know the person first other wise you just go away feeling empty.
5.Don't talk about marriage or serious commitment. It's only a been one date. They'll run as fast as they can away from you if you are doing this on the first date.
6.Don't talk on the phone or text during your date. (unless it is an emergency or your mother!) Other wise the person thinks you would rather be with someone else then them. Give your date all of your attention.
7. Don't talk about your kids on the first date. This is another way to scare people away so wait awhile.
8. Use your manners please, thank-you, chew with your mouth close. (seems obvious doesn't it-but some people have to be told.) Absolutely no farting you are not a child you can leave the area if you must. I should not even have to be mentioning this but for some sad reason I must9. Don't talk negatively about yourself. You need to sell yourself. Remember what I told you. You are beautiful and deserve to have happiness.
10. Don't introduce your children to this person until you are sure this person is going to be sticking around for awhile. It's to hard on kids to have people come and go from their lives all the time.
11.If she hates going somewhere or hates a certain type of movie don't take her there on your date. (you would think this would be obvious but there are people who just don't think).
12. Don't forget your wallet so the other person has to pay. That's just not right and will make you look cheap and you may end up washing dishes.
Have fun. Enjoy yourself and relax! You never know this could be the one you marry, your life long partner or maybe just your new lover! (that date for Friday night)
Dates are like a box of chocolates you never what you are going to get until you take that first bite.
If you have trouble with asking someone out you can always try a hundreds of free online dating service or try one of those 8 min dating services. I heard they are the thing to try. It could be fun. You have to go out and try things in order to find what is right for you. Find a friend who wants to try some of these. Sometimes when we do things with other people it's just a little easier.
